Ashleigh Houlton: Why Should We Be Shamed to Silence? 

By Maggie Gordon-Walker

Finding my voice as a mother living with birth trauma and chronic invisible illnesses – and helping you find yours Opening up about anything remotely “taboo” is automatically “oversharing”, right? At least that’s what society has conditioned us to believe – as with anything, boundaries and professional help absolutely have their place here. There’s been…

The mental health of mothers is a serious business

By Maggie Gordon-Walker

In the UK, suicide is the leading cause of direct deaths 6 weeks to a year after the end of pregnancy. In 2020, women were three times more likely to die by suicide during or up to six weeks after the end of pregnancy compared with 2017 to 2019. At least one in five women experiences…

Anna Kisby: Best and Worst

By Maggie Gordon-Walker

The best and worst bits of being a mother are one and the same for me. It’s having the ultimate responsibility:  nowhere to hide, nowhere to run to, no calling in sick, no emigrating, no emptying the bank account and doing a runner, no not-tonight-dear-i’ve-got-a-headache, no scrapping what you’ve done and starting again from scratch,…

Saskia Neary: What would you tell a pregnant woman?

By Maggie Gordon-Walker

I don’t think you could ever tell the ‘truth’ – it wouldn’t be fair. I remember walking along the sea front in the early months pushing a pram. I could catch the eye of any other mother and we would smile knowingly. It was almost like a secret club. Only you and they knew what…